Thursday, March 28, 2013

Remy homeschool day 9

Remy homeschool day 9
Thursday, March 28, 2013

Remy got up this morning and went to the toilet on his own. Starting to count again his streak of waking up with a clean and dry bed! I love that he's been going to bed without a diaper ever since last week.

Remy was quite calm this morning. He just wandered into the kitchen looking for food, no loudness nor hyperactivity. He tried to get to the pieces of orange that his sister wouldn't eat that we're in the sink, but I caught him on time and redirected him to his soup and bison bone broth. He had several small helpings and seemed satisfied.

I feel good about starting this diet officially with the intro tomorrow. He likes the food, an I am getting the hang of dividing up the preparation.

We took Sister to school taking the long way. At the school, Remy went around and around the garden raised perimeter very very fast while using me as balance. Then we ran together all the way home with some walking breaks. He seems to really like me running with him, and I am SO enjoying it too :)

The baby was crying when I walked in the front door. It seems to be that stage now where he will cry for me to pick him up. Today we got home at 9:10 am.

With some guidance from me Remy hung up his coat and put his shoes away before using the toilet and then going downstairs to the playroom.

While he played fish activity on the iPad I managed to eat my breakfast and feed as well as change and potty the baby before going downstairs to join him.

At 10:00 I guided him to use the toilet then we came back downstairs to drink his bison broth. It was too hot and Remy said "hot"! So he waited patiently trying the broth again and again intermittently until he was able to drink all that was in the thermos.

This morning remy has been more interested in iPad with the fish than going up on the windowsill. Going on the windowsill has been the regular activity these days but today he is really pleasant and calm with exception of some mild giddiness and giggling. He initiated me to muff his ears as well as engage with me with open fingers hands up over the table. He likes interlacing my fingers with his.

I have noticed Remy making his fingers into twists. It seems that he is trying to stretch them out as well as shake them out. He also has been blowing on them. I wonder if he has punched nerve causing him to feel burning or tingling sensations in his extremities. He also has not been letting me do buzz snap hands (one of this HANDLE activities that he had no problems with a month ago). I am looking forward to seeing what the osteopath can offer to help us.

After soup Remy has been really calm and focused on flash cards that he tried to get by himself by puttin a chair on the mattress to reach. The cards he likes he bends and wrinkles them.

From 11:15 am some family came to visit us in his playroom. Remy was quiet and calm looking at his flash cards and just taking care of himself.

As the guests were leaving. I walked Rwmy upstairs too. He sat on the windowsill in the kitchen as I was gathering clothes for our cousins. Remy ate two ripe pears on the windowsill quietly. What a guy :)

We returned downstairs after using the toilet. Then I took a few minutes to feed the baby and to get Remy more soup. When I returned he was foun a puzzle activity on his iPad calmly at the table.

He welcomed his soup by putting his iPad aside. I brought him small portions of soup several times, and he finished every serving each time.

I had him stay learning with his iPad in the playroom as I tried to eat my lunch and feed the baby. During this time the handyman came to touch up the baby's room door. Remy came up the stairs to go have a bowel movement. As soon as I recognized this at 1:14 pm, I turned in both hallway lights for him so that he wouldn't streak naked turning those lights on to indicated BM. It worked!

From 2 to 2:38 we went out for some exercise outdoors. We walked, we ran and we jumped. Remy initiated jumping 2 times and he came up with a chasing game in which he would pull me behind him and he would run off laughing giving himself a head start! But I ran fast too and quickly caught on to his game. His eye contact while running (and jumping in trampoline) is so sweet and amazing.

As we were going to get the mail and open the front door Remy ran off to the neighbour's front yard to get whatever remaining dirty snow there was. He laughed, but I got him back to the house rather quickly.

He took off his coat and hung it (not very elegantly, but it was on the hook!) and put his shoes neatly where I pointed.

I was able to attend the Q and A webinar getting my questions about the GAPS diet that I needed to know before officially starting Remy on the Intro diet tomorrow. My mom helped me keep an eye on Remy while I was on the call. Thank you, Mom!

In the evening I was on a health history call so Alex was taking care if all three kids. Near the end of my call, Remy apparently urinated all over his bed and comforter. And Alex discovered that Remy had poured my cup of water out in the playroom. Lesson to self: keep all histories under one hour and always keep liquids out of Remy's reach when he is not supervised.

All in all, a wonderful day today. It has been great so far since last Monday.

Remy Homeschool Day 8

Remy homeschool day 8
27 march 2013 Wednesday

Great morning start! Remy didn't eat anything before we left the house to take Sophia to school. I showered him because he had peed his bed overnight.

Coming home from Sophia's school was awesome! Remy went on the perimeters of the school garden around and around quickly holding my hand. The guy has very good balance like a heavy ballerina :)

He started running off an I would run along side him instead of telling him to stop or wait. I kept doing this and I think Remy was impressed with my new stamina! I have been feeling slimmer the last two days and I felt a lot more strength and endurance to run with him instead of after him.

It became like a game. We would run and then "1, 2, 3 jump!". He smiled looked me, laughed in delight. It was nice and sunny! What a wonderful start to our day.

We got back to the house at 9:04 am! I think that's a record for coming back so early. I made him apple sauce out of an apple mixed with some probiotic. He finished it up rather quickly, and came to me with the empty bowl looking for more food.

Because my mom told me not to give him tea with the suspicion that it caused him to laugh for over an hour yesterday, I decided to not make him any today to see if there would be a difference. But we were out to the library and health food store and he seemed just fine. I cannot determine if it was the tea. Only through experimentation will I figure it out like most things.

Remy ate two substantial bowls of lentils before we went out so he wasn't hungry. We ran and walked. He looked at me and got me to scratch his back as we made our way to the library. He used the toilet there no problem. He just wanted to wash his hands more.

He was OK at the health food store too. He jut hoisted himself on the counter a few times like usual but no running around.

Remy kept pushing his stomach and got me to push his stomach on the way home. This is an indication to me that something is going on internally with his gut.

When we got home, I fed the baby while Remy enjoyed leftover veggies in chicken stock. I am SO grateful that he has taken to the meat stocks and mushy veggies. I think that we can begin his intro to the GAPS diet this Friday. I just have a Q and A with Julie Matthews tomorrow afternoon about the GAPS webinar two weeks ago before I am ready to execute the intro with Remy.

In the afternoon our transition coordinator came to do a little assessment on Remy using the ABA method. I got a jar of kale chips to help her in doing the assessment. There was a lot of demands put in Remy by the stranger in his playroom. Most of the time time he just ran off laughing and trying to sneak the kale. He also jump quite a bit on the trampoline, but with a lot of physical manipulation (or "prompting") she did manage to complete the 5 level assessment. Remy didn't pass the fifth level which was putting a dry piece of sponge (he kept trying to eat them) in either the yellow tin or red box. I was pretty impressed though by what he actually did for a stranger.

Although we have been waiting a long time for funding (almost four years now) to give Remy the recommended IBI treatment, I am not sure I want to use that method to teach him. The relationship piece has been so rewarding; I want to continue to build on it. The ABA just doesn't feel right or in alignment with me.

At bedtime Remy went into the bathroom rummaging in the magazine rack and he pulled out a Golden Book entitled Puppy Love starring Bert, Ernie and dogs. He took it back to his bed and looked through it. I sat down with him on his mattress. Then he looked at me and gave me the book, so I started reading it to him. He took the book back before I could finish the first page.

Every day is a journey. Enjoy it thoroughly!

Kim :)



Monday, March 18, 2013

Day one of homeschool

Yay! It has been a success.

A couple of weeks ago just before the March Break both Remy's dad and I agreed that public school just wasn't the right place for Remy the time. So we made the decision to homeschool him after the March Break.

The March Break was more and more challenging as the days progressed. The school Remy had been going to started writing about Remy's irritation just prior to lunch time. Well, I also experienced that in forms of scratches to an blows to my body during the March Break. Happily, put first day of homeschooling saw much calmness and smiles.

Looking forward to his developing program.

Enjoy your day!
Kim

Thursday, March 7, 2013

Restarting Remy's Room

Today was the last day before Match Break starts tomorrow. Just a week ago I was trying to figure out how to survive the ten day holiday with all three kids... Now I am also working on planning homeschooling starting after the 'break.'

We sent Remy to public school last October because it seemed that he was just running around the house eating, breaking things, etc. I thought it was the coolest and most wonderful thing that he got into a structured learning classroom.

Remy quite seemed I enjoy the bus. It's sometimes really difficult to get Remy to get off the snow as he jumps his whole body onto the white ground.
Well, when I just mention that the bus is coming, he would get up and wander to the edge of our driveway waiting for the small yellow-orange school bus.

Today was his last day on the bus. I trust that he knows it.

I had a consult today with our family coach, and I am feeling good for trying to homeschool Remy again. The top concern about homeschooling was about burning out and making sure to give myself time for self-care.

One very important thing to get right away is finding a reliable helper to dedicate two hours a day to give me respite.

I believe that we will find the right person or persons. This time I feel confident that our program will be sustainable and effective.

Let me know if you or someone you know is interested in volunteering Monday to Friday between 9 - 5. I can be more specific with the hours when you get in touch.

Thank you!
Blissful blessings,

Kim